Schubert, you're really on to something there. I was going on and on, talking to my minister, and using the phrase "The reality is.........."; and after patiently listening, he responded "Orpheus, there are many realities". Indicating when we look at the same thing, we don't necessarily see the same thing, and whatever the thing is, it's our relation to the thing, that gives us our "reality"; hence there are many realities.
While we know what we're talking about, that should keep everyone else confused; but that's their "reality".
Enjoy the music and the holiday.