My girlfriend is pissed

Play something romantic that has a superior sound stage,candles,Chinese or some other take out. Make a indoor picnic on the floor and then roll around.

Usually when mine doesnt want to roll around, she has a headache, then she gives me a headache, then I get piss and go listen to music.

Try listening to music while rolling around. As long as she's not a screamer you should be fine.

Well... I just got my system up and running after not having it for a week - so ya i was jonesin'

After you have demo'd your new gear for a while, put in something romantic and ask her to join you for a listen. Then tell her you had been listening all that time to find just the right romantic tune for her. If she falls for it, she's a keeper. Happy listening.