Steve
I'm not technically inclined, just a bit of tech knowledge, so I can't tell what's really balanced or not, but I do know this, the Benchmark's XLR outputs are a quantum leap over the RCA. Something which 2 others I know have heard, and confirm the same findings.
Since you obviously know more about the internals of the Benchmark, maybe you could shed some light on why there's so much difference between the two?