The huge unflatness of the ear sensitivity chart would also seem to debunk any claims one might make about being able to hear flat frequency response. If you hear it as being flat, it in fact cannot be. Significant equalization would have to be applied to the source to have any chance. At that point, what you hear as flat would no longer be natural, rather "enhanced" to make it sound that way to compensate for lack of flat response with our hearing.
Its more complex than that, our ear/brain system can recognize acoustic environments and compensate for them... BTW I hope you are not suggesting that we need to compensate our ears with EQ.
I have trouble understanding how the ear hears something as "bright" that does not evidence itself somehow when measured.
I've always taken that as some resulting frequency anomoly in one of those frequency ranges where the ear is most sensitive, but how serious can it be if not even measurable? Where is the evidence that the effect exists, much less the cause?
If we can't measure it can it exist? Sure! Our instruments have limits of their own- noise being an excellent example (another being the tendency to quantify a phenomena as a reading on a meter...). When an amplifier has low harmonic distortion measurements, its often described as having such low distortion that its "buried in the noise of the instruments".
The simple fact is that in regards to sensitivity to odd ordered harmonics, our ears are **more** sensitive than instruments. This is not hard to understand if you also know that the ear is that sensitive because it uses odd orders to gauge sound pressure- look at it as a survival trait. If you can't tell how loud a tiger is growling, you may well soon be dead. The ear needs to be pretty sensitive as a result. There are other things that the ear sucks at compared to instruments; this simply isn't one of them :)
General Electric did the studies of this phenomena back in the 1960s. It was perhaps one of the first real forays into the hows and whys of human hearing perceptual rules. We have learned a lot more since then.