B_Limo,
Just asking, what are you doing?
On March 1 you buy Vandys. Four days later you buy KEFs.
So what are you doing? More importantly, where do you want to go and how much money do you have available to try to get there?
Honestly, it sounds like you don't know, but what you do know is when you hear something better, you want that sound.
Tmsorosk told you that the synergy of the components is the thing that makes or breaks a system. You assumed that the KEFs were the winning factor in your friend's system, but they didn't do that same trick in your system, so it's not just the KEFs alone that gave your friend his sound.
Do you have a dealer nearby who can help you? It appears that you're flying blind and all you're going to do is keep on spending money with no plan in place.
Chuck