Here are a number of restaurant recommendations:
Bombay (excellent Indian restanrant on Reisterstown Rd (aka 140)
Harryman House 340 Main St R'town (excellent food but can be pricey)
Full Moon Pub & Grill 1100 Westminster Pike (regular sports bar on 140 a little North of R'town)
Canopy Steak House 607 Main St R'town (this one is out of the phone book)
Mari Luna 102 R'town Rd, Pikesville (Mexican, again out of the phone book)
How about Thurs, Sep 8 or Fri, Sep 9 at 7:30 pm?
Yes, monthly or bimonthly meetings would be good and visiting dealers/manufacturers would also be great.
In addition to the ones mentioned, we could also try to visit Stealth Audio cables, Deja Vu Audio, Sophia Electronics, or Mapleshade records. They're all in the proximity.