George,
It isn't a loaded question, but you are correct that I'll never be convinced by what people say for a couple of reasons. For one I honestly think so many people make comments about components that they never actually heard. Secondly, there are no absolutes in audio, only preferences; therefore it isn't what someone says, it's what our ears hear that makes the difference. I don't think what I have is the best, not even close. I set a price range for what I want to spend on each component and try to evaluate it in my own system. If I end-up preferring something else, I have no problem saying I prefer something else.