Is the garage ceiling finished? If not you might consider adding some more joists and support beams to beef up the 'music' room's floor. Without doing that I doubt you'd get much benefit from just putting in a new hardwood floor. If your ceiling joists were about 12" apart with support beams about 24' apart you could probably do most anything. But if you are spanned at 24 to 48 inches, which conforms to code in a lot of places, you'll always have a spongy floor no matter what you put on top of it. What the effect of this floor will be on bass response is another issue intirely. Have you done any analysis on the actual in room bass response yet which supports that you are in fact loosing bass thru the flexing floor?
Just some things to think about. I'm sure others will have great suggestions.
Just some things to think about. I'm sure others will have great suggestions.