Worst or Best Excuses!


Why do 'Men' feel the need to use an excuse to justify audio/video purchase or even low ball your gear? IMHO, you don't have to make any excuses to pursue your passion and love for the music. 

The one excuse I hear a lot,  That's the best I can do without risking divorce.

Happy Listening! 
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My girlfriend doesn't know midrange from a gas range but she does know that some equipment is better than than others simply by listening.  In her house I've provided two setups...downstairs living room sports a Marantz 2250b stereo receiver, a simple Pro Ject belt drive turntable, and a pair of Meadowlark Kestrels.  In the bedroom for lazy Sunday mornings we listen to a Pioneer SX850 receiver through a pair of Usher bookshelves.  (Yeah I have a soft spot for some of the old stuff.)

She's never commented on the cost of the stuff in my house except for some of the cables which she simply finds ludicrous.
 " $300 for a PLUG? "  Or, "and what's that supposed to do?"  When she first saw my Maggie 1.7's she asked "those are speakers?"   

She he has more handbags of dubious (IMHO) cost, more shoes than anyone will ever need, more stuff that would require an aircraft hangar to hold the garage sale she's mentioned but has yet to schedule.  I cycle through my stuff, she compiles her's. I don't ask, she doesn't ask.  It's worked out. 


I find this interesting. 
I don't tell my wife what any piece of my equipment cost, not even the cost of the $50 vinyl LPs I have. But I am afraid of one thing:
That If I die today she would not know what to do with my equipment or how much to sell them for. So I came up with a solution:
I have a large folder with all my receipts, sealed. I told her to open the folder when I die, and I told her who to help her with the sale. She thinks I am crazy. But it's the truth. I don't want her to give the stuff away for pennies, or have family fighting over it.
What have you done to prepare for liquidate of your audio stuff when the time comes? Lets be real about this; the time will come. That's why I drive an old car so that I can enjoy my other toys.
 
Not to be too morbid...
Several years ago I had an illness which could of punched my ticket.
A good audiophile friend generously agreed to help my wife liquidate my equipment (which she has some hint of its overall value).

More problematic is 3500+ vinyl library which has a good selection of valuable LPs. (Ex. 2 Ry Cooder - Jazz MFI). I'm not inclined to go through the whole collection and research their individual values, although selling some of them individually will yield much more return than as a whole to a retailer. And my organization is limited, pulling albums out nightly, but not refiling...
How to handle that???