About Lugnut -- Patrick Malone


Many of us have come to know Patrick Malone (Lugnut) as a friendly, helpful, knowledgeable and kind individual. He is a frequent and enthusiastic contributor to our analog discussion forum. He has initiated only 17 threads, but responded to 559 threads. I would guess that many, if not most, of us can recall a time when Pat replied with helpful advice to a question we posted or helped us track down a rare recording. I have come to love Pat as a friend, and to respect him as a man, and I suspect many of you share those feelings.

Today I write to share difficult news with you. Pat has been diagnosed with an aggressive stomach cancer. It has yet to be determined whether surgery will even be worth it. If surgery is performed, most or all of the stomach will be removed, and Pat would face a difficult and long post-op period in the hospital. The medical course is still uncertain, but will be determined soon. Whatever is decided, it will not be easy or pleasant.

Something may be planned in the future to assist the family. For now, Pat could use some of the friendship he so often and willingly showed us. You can email Pat at: lugnut50@msn.com. You can also mail cards, letters ... or whatever. You may email me for Pat's mailing address. My email is: pfrumkin1@comcast.net.

I hope to spend a few days with Pat in Idaho or Nebraska (from which he hails) soon. Between this news, my legal work, getting ready for family arriving for the holidays, Audio Intelligent, and trying to make plans to visit Pat, my head is spinning. If you email me and I don't respond, please understand that I am not ignoring you, but rather simply do not have time to reply.

Pat may or may not have time to respond to posts here, to emails, or to cards mailed to him. But he has asked me to convey to each and every one of you that he has cherished your friendship, your comradery, and sharing our common hobby on this great website.

As we prepare for our holiday season celebrations, and look forward to -- as we should -- enjoying this time of year, I ask that you keep Pat and his family in mind ... and softly offer up, in quiet moments in the still of night and early morning, prayers for Pat and his family. God bless.

Warmest regards to all,
Paul Frumkin
paul_frumkin
The animals in my yard miss Lugnut feeding them while Cello, Vetterone and Nrchy were sitting on my sofa, listening to music.

I can still hear Pat's laugh as he watched. A kind soul with a big heart, I think of him often.
WOW! It's hard to believe it's been 3 years already! It feels like it was just about 6 months ago I was chatting with Pat. Time certainly is not slowing down.....

I do envy those that got to meet Pat Malone in person. Through stories from members like Albert, Doug and Nate, and the several long phone conversations that I had with Pat, I do get a pretty good picture of Pat. He was fun, engaging with just enough 'off the wall' mentality to mix in. He could ft in just about anywhere. I still miss you Pat, and I pray that you are happier and pain-free now. Laughing and dancing to the live music in the sky.

Peace,
John
I just read through this entire thread again for the first time in years. I laughed and cried. It was great to see how people came together to support a guy most had never met.

I have reminders of Pat in my music room and still think of him from time to time, but I wish it were more often. A lot of the emotional proximity we experienced those years ago is gone, which is another shame. Thanks again to everyone who was there for everyone else, not just Pat.
Nate,

Thank you for bringing this thread back to the fore. The holidays may have passed, but any time is a good time to remind ourselves of the value of friends. I don't even have to read the thread to feel tears well up, the memories are strong.

Paul and I have traded Xmas cards with Mary every year since Pat died, but this year's came back with a "Forwarding Order Expired" notice. If anyone knows her address, please email me.