I'd tell her that what would make me happiest would be for her to spend the money on something for herself rather than on something for me. (This can get you an even bigger upgrade in the future.)
I'd ask her to, rather than upgrade a component, sign you up to receive the 45rpm Blue Note reissue series.
Sure, we audiophiles love our components, but any lasting memories of your wife's love for you would be better imprinted by, and associated with, music.
And it can be enjoyed together.
And you will probably still have those records long after the next round of gear upgrades.
I agree with Tfkaudio. What would your wife like upgraded? Does she listen at all? Would she like you to have a cd player? I wouldn't touch either TT, maybe a new cartridge if you want to shake things up. A new record cleaner? My wife still only uses the dvd player connected to the TV, so I got a nicer tv with great sound built in.
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