What would you chose?

I agree with Tfkaudio. What would your wife like upgraded? Does she listen at all? Would she like you to have a cd player?
I wouldn't touch either TT, maybe a new cartridge if you want to shake things up. A new record cleaner? My wife still only uses the dvd player connected to the TV, so I got a nicer tv with great sound built in.

Sounds like your wife is cheating on you.

Soix:
Boy did you start my day off with a chuckle....thank you.

tell her no thanks...as bruce campbell would say, 'don't reward me like a pet monkey'

Ok, you guys have officially wandered....funny guys, I am laughing, but can we please, please get back to the question at hand, por favor?

Which is: You have my systems and someone dear to you asks you what would you upgrade if money was no object?

PS. No, we don't listen together much, she and I. My wife likes pop music from the 80's and 90's. I like music from Henry Purcell to the present. She only listens to her music in the car. I have dedicated stereo systems just for listening to music.