Jmcgrogan2, I suspect few are so threatened. I do think, however, that when your children are young you have to hold back, if for no other reason than they may get into your system or cost a lot of money.
I think "getting off the merrygoround" is deliberately pejorative. Most don't want to get off, but often do have to cutback.
I think "getting off the merrygoround" is deliberately pejorative. Most don't want to get off, but often do have to cutback.