You are in a rare catagory. Most people would consider your table (and arm) way below the other tables you mentioned, but because you understand the physics of how your table is supposed to work, you are able to make it sound considerably good.
I am just making a guess here- I don't know if any great high complience cartridges cartridges are being made that are going to compete with a similarly priced low complience cartridge with an apropriate arm, in that price range. I do know that with older tt's and low priced high complience cartridges, apprpriately set up, the results are laughably good considering what one can obtain them for.
I have tried low complience cart's on lightwieght arms, (the frog was one) and it just didn't work. Sure, it can sound ok, but you are right to question that route, as low complient cart's on that arm would be a waste of money.
I think that another appropriate question would be, is it possible for a high complience cartridge on a lightwieght arm to perform as well or close to a low complience cartridge on a heavier, stiffer arm, considering the technology you can buy in that price range.
I would say, good advice would be, be prepared to replace the arm. Since you are wise enough to search for a cart that is of the specs you are looking for, it seems wise to consider what arms you would be willing to buy in addition, to go with your new cart.