I thank Audiogon for allowing my last post. Although I agree with Ted Denney of Synergistic Research that it is best just to ignore insulters I think there comes a time when being frank when faced with this kind of situation -- while remaining polite and respectful -- serves a constructive purpose.
We are here to exchange opinions. If we cannot be polite and respectful then the level of discussion will deteriorate and some posters will just back off. This does not encourage the kind of participation that many of us appreciate. Full participation should always be encouraged. But when gratuitous insults are routinely allowed to stand the discussion often degrades as a result.
There are ways to let people know you do not like their opinions or their attitude without using clearly insulting language. I feel that Audiogon should have guidelines that delineate where to draw the line in order to keep worthwhile discussions active. Once a discussion degrades because of lack of civility or lack of respect it often deteriorates beyond reprieve. And that is a pity, IMO.
It is like a boxing match. If there is a low blow then that poster should be given fair warning -- publicly. If the other side replies in kind they should be given fair warning -- publicly. If there is a third infraction by either side that poster should be disallowed for the duration of the string. In this way, I believe that these strings will become self-policing and there will be far fewer instances of this occurring. This is meant as a constructive suggestion for how to manage troublesome threads.
We are here to exchange opinions. If we cannot be polite and respectful then the level of discussion will deteriorate and some posters will just back off. This does not encourage the kind of participation that many of us appreciate. Full participation should always be encouraged. But when gratuitous insults are routinely allowed to stand the discussion often degrades as a result.
There are ways to let people know you do not like their opinions or their attitude without using clearly insulting language. I feel that Audiogon should have guidelines that delineate where to draw the line in order to keep worthwhile discussions active. Once a discussion degrades because of lack of civility or lack of respect it often deteriorates beyond reprieve. And that is a pity, IMO.
It is like a boxing match. If there is a low blow then that poster should be given fair warning -- publicly. If the other side replies in kind they should be given fair warning -- publicly. If there is a third infraction by either side that poster should be disallowed for the duration of the string. In this way, I believe that these strings will become self-policing and there will be far fewer instances of this occurring. This is meant as a constructive suggestion for how to manage troublesome threads.

