One of the reasons your Rotel system sounded better than your friend's Aragon system is because the Monarchy 18B is being used as preamp. It works just fine as a DAC but things will change considerably with a real preamp. I use the volume control on my 18B simply to match the signal level to be the same as my tuner so that I don't have to EQ it everytime I switch sources. Check out this thread which is just as current as yours:
http://forum.audiogon.com/cgi-bin/fr.pl aamps&1047624625&read&3&4&
http://forum.audiogon.com/cgi-bin/fr.pl aamps&1047624625&read&3&4&

