I have used the analog Radio Shack meter for the last five years or so. As pointed out elsewhere, it is not very linear at bass frequencies and it understates peak SPLs somewhat. That said, my preferred listening levels have always hovered around 88-92db peak levels. Not that I do not listen somewhat louder on occasion. I have, as far as I can tell, listened at these levels for the last thirty or so years and guess what? I can still hear the Dead. I do not think that this is even close to the peak levels that I encounter in aircraft and at professional basketball games, not to mention indoor rock concerts. Venues where I typically wear ear plugs. Don't forget, with recordings that are lightly compressed, and of varied musical dynamics, I might encounter these peak levels once every few minutes, however with heavily compressed rock, pop or dance music the continuous SPLs may hover precipitously close to the peak levels, which will be much more damaging. My take is a bit different on the reason for listening at high levels. I think that compressed recordings cause us to increase the volume in a vain attempt to add perceived dynamics to the programme.
Marty