All the above answers are great, but I want to throw another 2 out - (1)maybe the quality of the CDs/recortdings. On a night when your not getting "into" it, try playing a CD that sounded good recently. (2)Another possibility is that you're not choosing music that really suits your mood. Choosing music is a strange ritual for me. (well not THAT strange) I scan over my discs and just see which I'm drawn to, trying to not have a preconceived notion of what I want to listen to. I may start off thinking I want Mahler, and end up listening to Milli Vanilli (they really were good, whoever performed the stuff!!!)