I must have overlooked your room dimensions but personally I think 16'x10' may be a little too tight for the STS's, not sure though as I have not tried them in a room that size. In my living room home theatre system the bass control was set between 10 and 11 o'clock. In the basement they are set between 12 and 1. I tried the 11 and 12 o'clock position in the living room system but it was too bloated (18 inches from the back wall) and due to room layout I just couldn't pull them out any further, well I could but my wife would have a cow. I'm really picky with having tight, tuneful bass so maybe I'm being overly critical but that's my musical preference. Definitely try the Arcam in your system and see if that helps with the brightness. If there is any possible way of getting a few feet behind the speakers, even temporarily, give it a shot just to hear what could be possible with the speaker.
Good luck