What has your audiophile experience taught you about yourself?


So that is the question, "What has your audiophile experience taught you about yourself?" I would think it interesting to know what others have found in an introspective way. This is what I have found.

1. At first I believed in the hype created by over-enthusiastic new gear owners. Most often I made mistakes in buying gear other people liked rather than listening to audio components and picking the pieces I enjoyed.
2. I found more actual enjoyment in listening to my music and my equipment rather than lust after better equipment, much of which is out of my financial reach.
3. I can learn from others on audio sites like audiogon.com. Some other sites are much more geared toward advertising than exchange of ideas and/or opinions.
4. It is ok to want a Bose Wave radio. I once owned Bose 901 speakers in the 80's.
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It's pretty hard to win an arguement over money with the wife after "you spent $1000 on a NEEDLE!"
As soon as I think I have this audiophile phenomenon figured out, a new revelation tells me how wrong I am.  This hobby can be humbling.  Perhaps a good thing...

That if I frequent a room enough; a music system will end up in there. This phenomena has not changed since my teenage years.
My wife keeps me in the basement at home.

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These days in helping out audio friends, very satisfying trying to make the most enjoyable music rooms from the least amount of dollars.
The plethora of used gear allows for this.

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For me during summer months it is healthy to step away from Audiophilia and this site; Music becomes nature and those songs that go well with a campfire, and some beers.
  
Only to find year after year, that once the cold weather starts setting in, and I am for the most part inside most of the time in the evening ....

that here I am again.
   
It was 30 Celsius outside today - just checking in :^)
Ive learned that even if i spend a million dollars on a system that i probably will not be satisfied. (If i had a million dollars to spend on a system). And always think something is better out there to get me to my live music.