Who recommends your preferred "Let the rear wave bounce approach" besides Bose?You’re obviously being facetious, because Bose doesn’t make a dipole. But, to answer your question:
Infinity (of yore)
Martin-Logan
Genesis
King Sound
Polk Audio
Kef
Quad.
Then, there are the manufacturers who try to imitate the dipole sound, such as those who make bipole speakers. You can look that up for yourself. There are also posters in this thread who concur that the rear wave is an inherent - and useful - part of dipole design.
Any dipole speaker manufacturer who wants to dampen or eliminate the rear wave can do so by using construction that will block the rear wave. Simple.