Shopping for new speakers

You mentioned you dont want to listen to 'boxes' and 'wife acceptance' was important, speakers that 'disappear' (I assume imaging-wise and not visually). Audition some Martin Logans. I have the Electro Motion ESLs and really like them. Small footprint, big soundstage, detail, plenty of bass for me and interesting visually. 

I have a pair of Nola contenders, If you are interested.

Well i have auditioned dynaudio c1, sonus faber venere 2.5 and 3.0 , revel and b&w803 andal though they are all fine products i am going to have to drive a little further to check out the legacys  if any one has the sig or focus i would like your thoughts