This a typical thread found here with lots of the same well meaning advice given over and over again and once in a while a dispute develops between two of the well meaning responders that takes the thread in a whole new direction. I can only agree with several who have stated that your problem is very unusual. I use a Grace Ruby re-tipped by Sound Smith with one of their OCL styli, and I have no unusual problem with dust or dirt. In fact, you’ve reminded me that I have not cleaned this stylus in ages. The sound is too gorgeous to mess with.
The scientific approach would be to stop using that gel and stop using your current record cleaner. My bet is that one of those two cleaners is doing more harm than good. You could use Magic Eraser on your stylus, which seems to be sort of a gold standard among vinylphiles. (The very idea of a "gel" seems suspect to me. You say that you see dust particles in the gel after using it on your stylus; it makes sense to me that the gel also in turn must leave a residue on your stylus.) You could try cleaning one of your LPs that tends to gunk up the stylus with crud using some mild detergent and tap water. Then rinse with plain water afterwards. See if these new approaches do not at least reduce the problem. There is no amount of static electricity in the universe that can attract that much dust during the course of playing half an LP side. Unless your listening room is in a woodworking shop. If the gel is at fault, it may be a real problem to get it off the stylus.
The scientific approach would be to stop using that gel and stop using your current record cleaner. My bet is that one of those two cleaners is doing more harm than good. You could use Magic Eraser on your stylus, which seems to be sort of a gold standard among vinylphiles. (The very idea of a "gel" seems suspect to me. You say that you see dust particles in the gel after using it on your stylus; it makes sense to me that the gel also in turn must leave a residue on your stylus.) You could try cleaning one of your LPs that tends to gunk up the stylus with crud using some mild detergent and tap water. Then rinse with plain water afterwards. See if these new approaches do not at least reduce the problem. There is no amount of static electricity in the universe that can attract that much dust during the course of playing half an LP side. Unless your listening room is in a woodworking shop. If the gel is at fault, it may be a real problem to get it off the stylus.

