I will try to answer most of your questions/comments. And if I miss some, I am sorry.
I did mention the budget in my second post, $2000 used. Demo speakers are fine too. Just don't like to buy luxury items new.
Very good question:) We are currently in Europe. I can listen to pretty much every brand from Elac to Rockport, PSB to Magico.
I thought exactly like you did! I thought let me go by what she likes most as long as I am happy too. Almost wanted to end the search with the LS50 but we still want to listen to more speakers.
As I mentioned before the ceiling is all wood. No concrete. And my friend measured it with his mic/minidsp and found the acoustics pretty good actually. He was surprised too.
Thanks again guys!

