As for the equipment / demo discussion I totally agree and I have been taking that into consideration. Another thing that I am trying to be cognizant of is how forgiving/unforgiving a speaker is. Out of convenience most of my music comes from Spotify, on wifi I listen to as high of quality as I can but its still compressed. Whatever speaker I end up with needs to be able to still sound good even with less than perfect material, sadly this is not an area that favors the Focals, the beryllium tweeter is quite revealing. I wonder how much a good DAC would help there.
I found a Vandersteen dealer about an hour away so I am going to try and get down there this weekend to have a listen. The closest Paradigm Persona dealer is down in Portland ~3 hours away so that will be another trek. Its really kind of sad how few hifi shops remain out here.

