I think that someone should buy you a free cartridge just for being able to mount an RB300 on an XA. I can't tell you which cartridge is better, and I do own a AT440MLa, as well as an older Grado Signature 8MX and a Grado Black. I can give you a bit of information though. The AT is a much better tracking cartridge in the Rega arm, when correctly aligned, as is the Shure M97Xe. I would never, NEVER select the AT if I could not adjust the VTA of the arm. The line contact stylus is very, very finicky and needs to be aligned in all three planes exactly so. Unfortunately, incorrect alignment will cause the cartridge to be very bright, and some people complain of this, though I think that it is mostly a set-up issue. The Grado is much more forgiving of set-up vagaries as is the Shure. When correctly aligned, the AT has more detail and focus, but is lighter in the midbass, which is to be expected as Joe Grado was an opera fan. The highs are more detailed on the AT, as well, but they are not as natural as the Grado, not really bright, but a bit flat and lacking in natural bloom and air. If you need a richer, more bloomy sound, the Grado, don't look back. If you want more detail and focus, and don't mind playing around, then the AT is the ticket.