I own an Audio Research PH-2 which is fully balanced in to out, and has balanced input connections.
The cartridge on any turntable is OK to use, all you need to do is use a RCA to XLR input adapter. The signal from the cart is fine going into the connector and being connected to the bal input of the Phono stage.
I made a cable with RCAs to XLR as that TT had RCA out on the base of the TT.
If you plan on a permanent installation, you can just replace XLRs on the Phono cable, just leave thee ground XLR pin unconnected, and put the plus and minus wires on those plus, minus XLR pins. No problem.
A few companies have a special adapter (VPI) for balanced phono.