Full detailed sound at 30 - 40 - 50 dB


I love the nuance you can hear when listening to music at loud volumes, but unless no one is home, it’s not considerate or feasible to listen at such high volumes. Plus I just had a baby so everyone is always home and volume levels are limited to 40ish dBs. 

Any recommendations for getting the most detail at these volumes? Additional gear or recommended integrated amps?

My NAD 7175PE has a loudness button which boosts the treble and bass a little, and that certainly helps things in the Kitchen. 

My living room amp is a Rega Brio-R which doesn’t have any tone controls. 

Any thoughts? Thanks!
leemaze
Get some good headphones.
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The quiescent noise floor in my listening room at best is 30db (measured). Personally and IMO, anything music wise lower than 50db wouldn't be worthwhile to listen to from an enjoyment perspective. Background while having conversation about something unrelated to music perhaps. 

Any recommendations for getting the most detail at these volumes?
Yes. Assuming you want to use speakers and not headphones, sitting closer to the speaker by a few inches can be helpful. In my case I like to listen at times in the low 90's, but usually find myself backing off to the mid to low 80's as it gets into the late evening. At one point I positioned myself about 8 inches closer to the speaker (I'm 7 feet away now) and the 8 inch difference was enough for me to lower the decibel range (again measured) by about 2.5. Even a 2.5 db decrease in decibels can be helpful at times.
Are you a male or female? If the former I want to know how in the heck did YOU have a baby"? What did you dilate up to before delivery? I'm sure your wife or girlfriend is pleased to know that fact. Now regarding your question about low level listening, have you considered room treatment? 
Get a Decibel meter and measure the sound level in your room with EVERYTHING off. My bet is you'll see numbers in 40ish range. So regardless of the system, 40ish dB listening levels is basically background music at best. As most have suggested, get a headphone and crank it up to your heart's desire.