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RIP Dad Elgordo

Well it has been a year today since my dad Donald Laby passed away and it hasn’t gotten any easier for me or my family.

My father was the greatest man I have ever known. He always knew how to say the right things when I had problems. He taught me to be an honest, loving, good person, and to always do what I think is right, no matter what the cost.

He was into High Fidelity Stereo and taught me the balance of sound. He was always turning me on to good music and helped me in my quest to become a better musician. I have had many great experiences with music from violin to cello to voice to guitar, tenor banjo, keys and mandolin. I could not have done any of it without his support.

My dad was also a wonderful grandfather to my niece and nephew always opening their eyes to different possibilities, showing them photography and playing them songs on the stereo. He helped with their homework and kissed boo boos. I’ll never forget how he would look at them just imaging their own possibilities.

He showed me the ropes of life to the fullest extent and I know he is learning the ropes of the after life so when I’m done here, he can be by my side once again to help with the next process.

I can’t say how important it is to tell the people closest to you how much you love them.
Just do it. Tell everyone you care about just how much they mean to you and how your life is better because they are a part of it!
mandocarrie
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My heart goes out to you. I know the loss is devastating. I lost my first born and only son less than six months ago. He waw 24 days short of his 23rd birthday.
You and your family will be in my thoughts.

Regards,

Wendell
trelja
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Elgordo was one of the more fun Audiogoners. Know that he was both liked and respected greatly. It's heartening to know he lived his life to the fullest.

We all mourn your loss, Mandocarrie. You must be incredibly proud to be his son.

Godspeed,
Joe
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nrchy
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I'm very sorry to hear about the loss of your father. I buried my dad earlier this year, and understand your sorrow. It been almost a year for me, and yesterday a stray thought of him brought tears to my eyes.

I'm sorry too, that it took this long for any of us to be able to offer our condolences. Sometimes people just disappear from AudiogoN, and in most cases the community never finds out why they are gone. Seeing your dads user name brought a smile.

While I am sorry at the loss, I'm also thankful that you shared this with us.

Nate
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albertporter
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What has been expressed here exceeds anything I can add. I will only say I had great respect for Elgordo and thank you for allowing us to share your memories.
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I echo all of the thoughts above, and will add just one other. Although one year has not been enough time to heal the emptiness, it will come. My wife lost her father suddenly at an early age. He was a great guy and everyone loved him and missed him. He and my wife were very close. The first year or two after his death were difficult for all of us; but especially for her. It has now been almost 30 years; we all still miss him and mourn the fact that he never met our son, or that we never had the chance to share our more recent prosperity with him. However, the pain of the loss has diminished; replaced more with sorrow for not being able to share the things we know he would have loved. So it really is true that time does heal. It takes different amounts of time for all of us and when you are ready, you will begin to remember the great things he gaave you, with a team AND a smile.

We share your loss and admire your courage for putting your emotions out there for us all to see.
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