There needs to be a balance to get things right in an every day environment, but the problem to ME, is that we have these references forced down out throats by the pubs/bloggers and so many don't go to enough live performance's or they just listen to others and not their ears.
Thanks for sharing likes to support what you are sharing. Makes it much easier to understand. I'm much more in your camp IRT the manipulated curves. That's just the way audio is and always has been. Folks are told what to believe and most don't fully trust their own ears and so many rarely, if ever go to live events. Even at live events, it may be at a venue with crappy sound (so many are).
You get used to what you own and that's what counts. Folks always say how happy they are, but Audiogon proves that most aren't. I look back at my last 5 years in audio and asked myself if I'm being a hypocrite by saying that as I've changed every component in my own system during that time frame.
Went from a new system of Vandersteen Treo's (now own Vandersteen Quatro's), Music Hall DAC/headphone amp (then to the Empirical Audio ODSE/SE and now the Ayre QX5/20), Ayre AX7e integrated (then the Ayre AX5 and then upgraded to the 20 version). Music server is the fully rebuilt (by Steve Nugent) Mac Mini with Paul Hynes LPS. Bought a Basis 1400 TT (just sold it to a friend) and an Aesthetix Rhea Phono pre stage completely rebuilt and updated by Jim White's team (about to put it up for sale).
I need to get out of Vinyl due to health reasons (can't get up and change albums ever 20 minutes), but I've stayed with the same company for my changes and all were major upgrades that I expected to do when I got my new system 5 years ago.
I don't feel the need to tune with new cables or anything else. I did go from a Synergistic Research Powercell 10 mk 2 Tesla power conditioner to the new Audioquest Niagara (yes, putting the SR power cell up for sale too, lmao). I have had all balanced AQ cables and when I did the A/B testing, felt the Niagara was better for my system in my room.
In my ears I trust, lol. Interesting where the thread is going.