Cannot find perfect sound

I also hear major resonances from many high end speakers which the reviewers seem to ignore. Even my PMC speakers have horrific resonances. Despite this, they were highly regarded by all the studio engineers.

I’d suggest your expectations are not realistic, but then having the opinion cheap ear buds sound better I find incredibly odd. I walk nearly everyday and though my earbuds are not inexpensive, I would never choose them over my 2 channel system. In addition, you state cheap earbuds which raise the question on cables, DAC and amplification. Most reference systems I am familiar with do not have that sort of connection.

Easy solution is to be thankful you enjoy music through such a inexpensive medium and stick with that. However, if you insist on pursuing this hobby your issue may not be speakers.

To be analogous to food, say cheese. If you dislike cheese and continue to post on forums your dismay on why others like this and that cheese seems odd. It seems this post suggests “I like Kraft singles over a cheese made by Wayne Hnitz, who I believe won several categories in cheese making world championships” and suggest everyone, including judges, has unrefined tastebuds. It may not be everyone else...............

having the opinion cheap ear buds sound better I find incredibly odd.

I never said earbuds sound better. I already said before that :

 I did not say I preferred cheap earbuds over expensive speakers. If that was the case, there would be no need to buy speakers and I could just continue using the cheap earbuds.

What I did say is that I could not hear the timing accuracy I hear from earbuds in these speakers. And it's not just earbuds I've tried other cheap headphones and I hear the exact same timing accuracy despite differences in frequency response.

regardless of the nuance of your question or post, I believe the rudimentary question remains, "why do I hear this and no one else does, or if they do why doesn't it bother them?"

Again, it may not be the  everyone else, or speakers if the complaint spans across many speaker manufactures as your post suggests.   
  

"why do I hear this and no one else does, or if they do why doesn't it bother them?"

Because most speakers are incapable of accurate phase response, the vast majority of people have never heard a minimum phase error system.

Manufacturers and sales people prattle on about frequency response, XOver order and other irrelevant attributes.

There isn't a system in a hundred that can accurately image a DI bass or align a kick point and heft. The 'image' presented is a nebulous bucket of mush.

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Hi, check out Bache Audio- Tribeca 001 model
My review below:
5 stars ! Positive feedbackWOW ! Simply the Best speakers that I have ever owned or heard. And after 30 years in this hobby I've heard plenty. I have owned NOLA, Paradigm, Splendor, Harbeth, KEF reference 3, Salk Silks etc etc
Bache speakers are simply better especially at this price point. Clarity and detail is so amazing. I am hearing detail in my music that I never thought possible.
Bass to my ears extends well below the specs and closer to 30hz. Important to note that it is simply tight and detailed. no sense of softness/muddiness. Midrange/vocals are actually the best I've ever heard. so accurate and clear. Sounds as though the artist is in the room closest to live performance than any other system.
Highs are detailed due to the excellent fostex tweeter perfectly integrated w/ a specific methodology that I feel will be the future of speaker design.
2 issues- 1 is I now can’t stop listening to music. 2- this speaker is revealing if recording is poor you will hear it. This of course is positive and really see no flaws in design or sound. Sound stage is expansive and deep.
As far as finish; super high level and process was so cool. Greg was accessible for entire build. His passion and love for his speakers comes through not just in the finished product but throughout the process.
Like everything there is a sweet spot and as far as audio reproduction this is IT. Simply I have not heard better and I am driving them easily with the Exogal 100 watt amp. Which is a perfect partnership and to my ears audio heaven on earth.
So much gratitude for Greg and his innovative design, passion and implementation.
Do yourself a favor and hear them today.
Much Peace through happy listening, Ken