Timlub, caps unused for very long time, as I mentioned before, loose their rated breakdown voltage, but it takes very long time. Caps might explode because of this, but often when caps are getting very old and dry the avalanche effect (High ESR=heat, heat=higher ESR), can build-up pressure and explode the cap.
I'm not sure if charged capacitor has more pressure inside, but I'm pretty sure that warm capacitor does, so it might improve the seal, I agree. I've seen few capacitors leaking, but it was decades ago when capacitors were not up to current design, materials and production standards.
Also, there were some very poor quality electrolytic caps made in China few years ago exploding in computer power supplies. I would not be surprised to find them also leaking. A lot of parts are made in China, including pretty much all ceramic caps and quality is excellent, but some Chinese companies might take shortcuts. I would feel safe with electrolytic caps as long as the are branded by well known companies. That way my home state "Illinois Capacitor" (now part of Cornell Dubilier) might have factories in China still being very reputable company.